内卷 內卷
nèijuǎnㄋㄟˋ ㄐㄩㄢˇ
involution; rat-race burnout, literally “rolling inward”
A sociology term gone viral: competing harder and harder for shrinking returns, like everyone standing at a concert so nobody sees better. '太卷了' = insanely competitive.
躺平
tǎngpíngㄊㄤˇ ㄆㄧㄥˊ
lying flat; quiet quitting, literally “lie flat”
Opting out of the rat race entirely: no house, no overtime, no ambitions beyond basic comfort. The Gen-Z protest that made the state uncomfortable.
摆烂 擺爛
bǎilànㄅㄞˇ ㄌㄢˋ
giving up deliberately; letting it rot, literally “displaying rot”
From basketball 'tanking': knowing something is failing and letting it fail worse on purpose. Heavier than 躺平 — not opting out, actively not trying.
佛系
fóxìㄈㄛˊ ㄒㄧˋ
buddha-style; chill, whatever happens, literally “buddhist style”
Detached, low-desire, unbothered: 佛系追星 (casual fan), 佛系玩家 (plays for fun). From a 2014 Japanese magazine term for unhurried men.
凡尔赛 凡爾賽
fán'ěrsàiㄈㄢˊ ㄦˇ ㄙㄞˋ
humblebragging, literally “Versailles”
Complaining in a way that shows off: 'my husband keeps buying me designer bags, so annoying'. Named for the manga 凡尔赛玫瑰 and its accidental luxury.
emo
emoemo
feeling down, in a mood, literally “emotional”
Borrowed from the music genre; on Chinese internet it just means suddenly sad or melancholy, usually at 3am. '我emo了' = I'm in my feelings.
破防
pòfángㄆㄛˋ ㄈㄤˊ
emotionally shattered; defenses down, literally “defense broken”
Gaming term 'armor pierced' for the moment a video or comment breaks your composure — tears, laughter or anger. '给我整破防了'.
泪目 淚目
lèimùㄌㄟˋ ㄇㄨˋ
moved to tears, literally “wet eyes”
From Japanese 涙目 via anime subtitles; eyes welling up, usually at a reunion, tribute or old photo.
绷不住 繃不住
běngbùzhùㄅㄥ ㄅㄨˊ ㄓㄨˋ
can't keep a straight face, literally “can't hold taut”
Your poker face snaps — from suppressing laughter, or holding back tears. '绷不住了' is the moment the dam cracks.
笑不活了
xiào bùhuó leㄒㄧㄠˋ ㄅㄨˋ ㄏㄨㄛˊ ㄌㄜ˙
dying of laughter, literally “laughing can't live”
'I literally can't breathe/laughing myself to death' — the current strongest laugh reaction, successor of 笑死我了.
下头 下頭
xiàtóuㄒㄧㄚˋ ㄊㄡ˙
the opposite of a crush; turnoff, literally “head down”
Instantly losing romantic interest in someone — the opposite of 上头. '他突然下头了' = the charm wore off in one sentence.
上头 上頭
shàngtóuㄕㄤˋ ㄊㄡ˙
obsessed, can't stop, literally “head up”
Addictively into something — a show, a person, a game. '太上头了' is the modern 'can't put it down'.
crush
crushcrush
a sudden crush, literally “crush”
English word used directly: a fleeting but intense romantic interest, usually someone you don't actually talk to. '我的crush'.
舔狗
tiǎn gǒuㄊㄧㄢˇ ㄍㄡˇ
simp; devoted simp, literally “licking dog”
Someone who degrades themselves chasing affection that never comes; harsher and more self-aware than 'lovesick'.