1We must learn to accept the people around us.
2If you marry a chicken, follow the chicken (idiom); A woman should follow whatever her husband orders.
Example
jià jī suí jī嫁鸡随鸡jià嫁gǒu狗suí随gǒu狗。
嫁鸡随鸡嫁狗随狗。
If you marry a chicken, follow the chicken; if you marry a dog, follow the dog.