Examples
dé bù dào得不到de的dōng xi东西jiù就zuì最xiǎng想dé dào得到。
得不到的东西就最想得到。
It is the things that we do not possess which seem to us most desirable.
通过诋毁别人，你得不到什么。
You gain nothing by speaking ill of others.
如果你没决心做好男人,那你就得不到好女人。
If you don't resolve to become a good man, then you just won't get a good woman.