jìng jiǔ bù chī chī fá jiǔ

ㄐㄧㄥˋ ㄐㄧㄡˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄔㄔㄈㄚˊ ㄐㄧㄡˇ

Idiom

1lit. to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit (idiom)

2fig. to turn down a request only to be forced later to comply with it under pressure