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Chinese pronouns: 我你他 and everything around them

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Chinese pronouns are a small closed set - one of the few areas simpler than English.

The core set

我 wǒI, me我们we, us
你 nǐyou你们you all
他/她/它 tāhe/she/it (one sound)他们/她们/它们they
您 nínyou, polite大家everyone

Spoken Mandarin merges he/she/it into tā - the characters differ, the sound does not. 她 and 它 are twentieth-century print inventions; your ear never has to tell them apart.

们 is not a plural marker

们 attaches to people-pronouns only: 我们, 你们, 老师们. Never on objects (书们 does not exist) and optional even on human nouns - 孩子 already means kid or kids. Think "group of people", not "-s".

Possession and the polite form

Possessive adds 的: 我的, 你的, 他的 (my, your, his). With close people the 的 drops: 我妈, 你爸爸, 他们家. For respect, 您 is the polite singular you - service staff will greet you with it; use it upward, not sideways. Reflexive is 自己 (我自己), and 大家 covers "everyone".

The omissions

Pronouns drop freely once established - Chinese is a pro-drop language. 回答了。 ("answered.") needs no "I"; the subject carries over from context. Subjects also get skipped in questions about the obvious addressee: 吃了吗? is literally "eaten?" with 你 implied. Learners can use the full form safely - omitting is the fluent habit, not the starting one - but expect natives to drop them constantly in speech and texting.

Common questions

What is the difference between 你 and 您?

您 is polite/respectful - service contexts, elders, formal address. 你 is the default everywhere else. There is no plural 您们 in standard use.

Is there a word for "it" in Chinese?

它 exists but is used far less than English "it" - Chinese prefers repeating the noun or omitting it entirely once the topic is set.

Are there gendered pronouns in spoken Chinese?

No - tā covers he, she and it identically. Gender only appears in writing (他/她/它), which is why spoken slips like "he... she" are famous among learners in both directions.

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