The most important thing about relations with the opposite sex is not how good the other person is, but that they treat you well.
有人形容，跟异性交往就好像在海边捡石头，大家都能捡喜欢的那一个。
The way some people see it, associating with the opposite sex is just like going to the seaside and gathering stones; everyone can pick up the ones they like.